The concept of self determination seems like a no-brainer to me. Parsing the words, to me it means determining for yourself exactly who and what you want to be. But, it goes a little farther than that, doesn’t it. It also means, “and making that happen.”
When our nation’s founders put so many of our establishing documents together, they took great pains to describe how every American should have the freedoms and rights to find their own happiness. Let’s see… How was it worded again?
In the Declaration of Independence, the document that railed against King George III and stated quite clearly that we are NOT part of the English kingdom anymore, it was said in the never misunderstood:
“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”
You remember that from elementary school, don’t you? (I usually misquote the word “unalienable” myself and instead misuse the word “inalienable”, but the intent is the same for me… )
“…they are endowed by their Creator…” (a gift given to every person) with the right to “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” The ability to live, and have the “creator given” right to seek out that which is pleasing to the person.
When I was considering what to write about for this article, the big news in the media seemed to be all about the cost of interest payments (amount of interest) on Stafford Loans for college education. At first, the conversation seemed to be about whether the Republicans would get their way and RAISE the interest rates by double (according to the Democrats), or whether the Democrats would keep the interest rates where they are today.
But, I could literally write for a very long time if I went down that path. And since so many other bloggers and mainstream media outlets have already beat that horse, the topic led me to how it all relates to “conservatism”.
It really boils down to this for me… If you do not determine your own destiny, it will be determined for you… Are you a slave to your reality, or do you accept your own greatness? (in my own words… I’m not sure if anyone else has made similar statements)
In a recent conversation with an acquaintance of mine (who I hope will become a friend), I discussed this concept and realized it truly is a driving force in my own life. It may seem a little “mean”, or uncaring, or uncompassionate, but… I strongly believe that we are WHO we are because of choices we make, no matter how we began life (socially speaking).
My friend asked me, “Are you saying the unemployed and poor are that way because they CHOSE to be that way?”
To which I responded, “You can trap yourself in your reality by not accepting your own greatness. Listening to others… Being limited by them… So short answer yes.” So, I continued to describe my own story.
I started in very humble surroundings. As young as I can remember, I knew that this is not the lifestyle I was intended to have. I don’t think anyone really is intended to wonder where their next meal is coming from, or whether they will have to move again very soon because the rent can’t be paid.
My greatest example for getting out of that mess was in watching how my mother (divorced mom of 4) dealt with her own ability to provide for us. She never accepted any form of welfare or handouts from anyone… She worked hard. When I say hard, she was a letter carrier for the Post Office; backbreaking work that often became dangerous for a woman when approaching homes with big dogs. But she did anything she could legally in those days to keep good care of us. Cake decorating at the local grocery store… Cashier for another grovery store… She was a very determined woman… Not ever allowing herself to be determined by anyone else.
But there were so many good examples in those days. Growing up around the age of 9, our economic status seemed to get gradually better. But, even then, my oldest brother couldn’t really see any way his mom and step-father would be able to help with his college, IF he was going to get any college at all. So, he worked a couple years in menial jobs, eventually landing work at a shipyard working in a drafting department, to help pay his way through the first couple years of a community college. His grades in high school combined with his stellar grades in the junior college allowed him to apply for scholarships and grants and move on to a real 4-year college… In those days, the 60s and 70s, people from our neighborhood never expected to have any opportunity for college. But he DID IT.
My next brother decided that the college route initially was just a little too far off the path he wanted. It was not very common in the early 70s for men to volunteer for service in the military, but my brother did exactly that. He enlisted in the Navy and for the next 20 years served his country with honor AND distinction, being not only highly regarded but also highly decorated. His work was a hard life as he was in a position known as Machinist Mate, which you and I might refer to as engine room mechanic. It is an incredibly HOT and dangerous job, to be at sea in the belly of a small ship being tossed on huge swells, knowing you won’t see your family for many months at a time… In the beginning, during the Ford and Carter years, his pay was very very low. But, it was much higher than most of our neighbors… He had found his way out as well.
Me? Fast forward to 1999 when I retired after 20 years in the US Air Force. Joining the civilian sector as a very low level employee was a culture shock was was ill prepared for. I had negotiated my way into a job which I thought was going to provide reasonable follow-on pay to support me and my family. OH how I was sadly mistaken… I ended up moving from one state to another… and then another… to find work that paid a little more, and a little more.
In 2007, after watching many companies buy each other in my industry, the company I worked for was bought up by a world-class giant. In almost all of the cases I had previously witnessed, employees of the smaller company were typically pushed out in some sort of “buy out” or “lay off” situation.
At this point, I had a bit of an epiphany… It came in the form of the sentence I gave you way up in this article:
“If you do not determine your own destiny, it will be determined for you…”
I was tired of having other people determine WHO I was and WHAT I was and WHERE I could work. I determined then and there that I was not going to wait around for a lay off… I was not going to wait to see what kind of “buy out” package they might offer me. Nope… I was done.
I called my new boss whose office was in south Texas and asked him what the potential was for promotion within his organization. His answer left me feeling that even though he gave the idea lip service, it was not likely to happen anytime soon for anyone… “Not until after the New Year at least, when I get my new budget,” he said.
That conversation was on a Friday… I took a week to talk it over with my wife… Called my oldest brother and asked his advice… Hiked in the woods once or twice to clear my head… and on the following Friday, I called him back.
“Clem…” I started the conversation, “I know I’ve only really worked for you for a week now. But, I want to tell you it has been nice working for you…” I tendered a two-week notice and left the company to form my own.
It is my feeling that anyone in any condition has a skill that they can bring to form a company of their own. If you can use a computer to surf the net and read blog articles like mine, you have a skill that can be sold to someone. If you can stand on a street corner and hold a sign telling passersby about a sale in the nearby mall (a common sight here in GA), you have a marketable skill.
Do not let the world determine your happiness. Determine it for yourself and make it happen…
James Baldwin, an American novelist, essayist, playwright, poet, and social critic, once said:
“Freedom is not something that can be given. Freedom is something people take, and people are as free as they want to be.”
He was also a black man who grew up with the hardships associated to 1920s Harlem…
Now you might ask, what does all this have to do with conservatism? To which, the answer really should be “nothing at all.” But the problem is, based on that conversation about college loan interest rates… or the conversation about social welfare… or the conversation about whether you are a productive part of society, or the part that sucks its existence from the productive part… then, those liberal concepts are not in harmony with the idea of self determination. At least not in THIS time…
Remember when that great conservative, John Fitzgerald Kennedy made that great comment about self determination and patriotism when in his inaugural address he said:
“Ask not what your country can do for you – Ask what you can do for your country!”
Determine your own reality… and quit expecting others to feed you, clothe you, house you, educate you and employ you.
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http://www.americanthinker.com/blog/2012/03/may_i_have_a_dose_of_personal_responsibility.html
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